One thing to remember, who is Father, what is Father, who is our Father. What does it take to be a Father? Children. Do Children have a choice in who they are and who their Father is?
If we are Born From above, that is by a Father, then Christ's Seed is our rebirth. Since God is Our Father and Jesus Christ is the Seed that gives us birth. Then salvation is all up to God and His Father's Seed in us. He is not and abortionist.
1 Peter 1:23 Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.
Who is the Word of God? John 1:1-4 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God. All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. In him was life; and the life was the light of men.
Allow the Word of God to give you life not Calvin or Jacobus Arminius.
Christ in you the Hope of Glory and His Faith in us is our life we are to live.
Colossians 1:27-28 To whom God would make known what is the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles; which is Christ in you, the hope of glory: Whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus:
Galatians 2:16-20 Knowing that a man is not justified by the works of the law, but by the faith of Jesus Christ, even we have believed in Jesus Christ, that we might be justified by the faith of Christ, and not by the works of the law: for by the works of the law shall no flesh be justified. But if, while we seek to be justified by Christ, we ourselves also are found sinners, is therefore Christ the minister of sin? God forbid. For if I build again the things which I destroyed, I make myself a transgressor. For I through the law am dead to the law, that I might live unto God. I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.
Not Calvin or Arminius.
In Christ: Phillip