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An engagement is not marriage. Christians are not to have love-affairs like the world and live in sexual immorality before marriage. God need to guide you to live a pure life before marriage and enter marriage in purity.
The Bible repeatedly tells us that the one who lives for God is blessed, but he who turns his back on God will not prosper. The seraphims cried, 'Holy, holy, holy is the Lord'. This is the holiness we want to see in our lives, and nothing of the world's dirt.
Parents can thank God for children who serve God and choose to get married in a pure way. In Gal 5:24 we read that, 'Those who are Christ's have crucified the flesh with its passions and lusts'. The Bible teach us to flee youthful lusts, not just in our mind, but physically as well.
You are free to make your own choices, but you're not free to choose the consequences of your choices.
Cleanse your life so that God's glory be seen on your face and in your life.